Category Archives: Bereshit 16:1-13

Discussion Plan: Consequences and Responsibility – MS, HS

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Discussion Plan: Consequences and Responsibility

  1. If I give you permission to play ball outside the house and a ball goes through the window, who is responsible for the broken window?
  2. You loosen the wheel on the bike of someone intending to scare them, but they ended up getting hurt. Are you responsible for them being hurt?
  3. You help your friend with their homework. Are you responsible for their good grade?
  4. You introduce two people and they become friends. Are you responsible for their friendship?
  5. Your parents don’t give you permission to go to your friend’s sleepover party and your friend is angry with you. Are your parents responsible for the anger?
  6. You know your friend is shoplifting but don’t say anything to anyone. Later, she gets caught and gets into trouble. Are you at all responsible?
  7. Your sister stays out after curfew . Your parents ask your opinion on what to do, but you tell them to do whatever they want. They ground her for a whole month. Are you responsible for her harsh treatment?
  8. You tell your parents that your brother has started smoking. They ask you to try to get him to stop. Are your parents living up to their responsibility?
  9. You give a beggar a dollar. They buy a lottery ticket and win. Are you responsible for them now being wealthy?
  10. Your friends ask to borrow some money. You think they are going to buy cigarettes. They do. If they get sick, are you responsible for their health?

Leading Idea: Going from – Going to

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Leading Idea: Going from – Going to

When you decide to move, does it make a difference if your reason for making the move is tied to leaving behind the place you are currently in, or tied to the place you heading toward? Sometimes the place we are heading towards is also a place we once chose to leave (coming home after camp, leaving the home town where we grew up, then coming back there later in life). Sometimes that ‘return’ is from a place our ancestors left generations before (Jews going to live in Israel, second or third generation immigrants returning to their parents/grandparents’ country of birth). Is a return to place always motivated by the desire to be there or can there be other reasons to ‘return home’?
Susan Babbitt, writing on American slavery notes that the decision to leave often also involves a bold step of imagination. In going to this involves the capacity to imagine one’s life differently from how it is, and perhaps to imagine yourself capable of things you have not yet done. To have both to desire change and some imagined life that you are moving toward. In going from imagination also comes into play, as it may involve playing out the consequences of staying where we currently are. Of course both might be the matter of implusive action (without much forethought) – but is that the case here?
Hagar has left Avram’s house and she is ‘on the road to Shur’ – heading back toward her place of birth, Egypt. It looks like she is fleeing from one home and returning to another home. Yet she turns around and returns to the place of conflict – her home with Avram and Sarai (and that doesn’t seem to turn out too well for her!). These discussion plans explore going form and going to and the reasons we might have for making these journeys.

Discussion Plan: Running from, Running to – LPS

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Discussion Plan: Running from, Running to

  1. When you run away, do your problems run with you?
  2. Is it possible to run away without leaving home?
  3. Is hiding from someone a kind of ‘running away’?
  4. If people know where you are going, are you still running away?
  5. If you are running away from something, are you always running to something else?
  6. Are there times when running to something, is always running away from something else? Can you give an example?
  7. If you run to your mother when she comes home from work, are you running from anything?
  8. Can you think of some circumstances when running away would be a sensible thing to do? (if so, what might they be?)
  9. Can you think of some circumstances when running away would be a brave thing to do? (if so, when might that be?)
  10. Can you think of some circumstances when running away would be the wrong thing to do?

Intertextual Sources: Deciding when to leave – Reasons not to leave – MS, HS, A

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Intertextual Source:  Deciding when to leave – Reasons not to leave

Look up these further references in the Torah: What do they tell us about reasons people have for leaving and reasons they have for staying? In what ways do they involve ‘going from’ and in what ways are they a matter of ‘going to’?

  1. Bereshit 12: 10 – Abram goes to Egypt
  2. Bereshit 27: 41-45 Ya’akov leaves the family home
  3. Bereshit 30:25 – 31:18 – Ya’akov decides to leave Laban.
  4. Ruth1:12-19 – Story of Ruth. Orpha decides to leave Naomi, but Ruth decides to stay with her.

Secondary Sources: Going from, Going to – MS, HS, A

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Secondary Sources: Going from — Going to

“Know from where you came, where you are going, and before whom you are destined to give a judgment and accounting.”
Mishna “Pirke Avot”, ch.3:1


American Slavery

Sethe is a central character in Toni Morrison’s novel Beloved. She is a slave who runs away to find freedom but is eventually caught and made to go back. This description of Sethe’s escape comes from Susan Babbitt in Impossible Dreams. It is a vivid account of the experience of leaving.

Sethe describes her escape from slavery, saying, “I did that. I had help, of course, lots of that, but still it was my doing it; me saying, Go on, and Now.” Nine months pregnant and alone, she struggles through the woods on swollen, blistered, bare feet. She does take conscious control of her life for that short, difficult time… “
Susan Babbitt in Impossible Dreams

Hagar in Art

Look at this picture –Having read the story of Hagar, is there anything in this interpretation that you find interesting?

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“Hagar Leaves the House of Abraham”
Rubens, Peter Paul, 1577-1640,
Flemish Baroque Painter


 
Image source: http://www.artbible.info/art/large/826.html

Discussion Plan: Running from, Running to – UPS, MS

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Discussion Plan: Running from, Running to

  1. When you run away, do your problems run with you?
  2. Is it possible to run away without leaving home?
  3. Is hiding from someone a kind of ‘running away’?
  4. If people know where you are going, are you still running away?
  5. Do we ever have a duty to run away?
  6. If you are running away from something, are you always running to something else?
  7. If you are running to something, are you always running away from something else?
  8. If you see a friend or child and run toward them, are you running from anything?
  9. Can you think of some circumstances when running away would be a sensible thing to do? (if so, what might they be?)
  10. Can you think of some circumstances when running away would be a brave thing to do? (if so, when might that be?)
  11. Can you think of some circumstances when running away would be the wrong thing to do?
  12. Can someone else decide for you that you should run away, or is it only something you can decide for yourself? Why? Why not?

Discussion Plan: Running from, Running to – HS, A

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Discussion Plan: Running from, Running to

  1. When you run away, do your problems run with you?
  2. Is it possible to run away without leaving home?
  3. Is hiding from someone a kind of ‘running away’?
  4. If people know where you are going, are you still running away?
  5. Do we ever have a duty to run away?
  6. Can you ‘run away’ from where you are without moving at all?
  7. Can you ‘go toward’ something without moving at all?
  8. If you are running away from something, are you always running to something else?
  9. If you are running to something, are you always running away from something else?
  10. If you see a friend and run toward them, are you running from anything?
  11. If a parent sees their child and runs toward him/her, are they running from anything?
  12. Can you think of some circumstances when running away would be a sensible thing to do? (if so, what might they be?)
  13. Can you think of some circumstances when running away would be a brave thing to do? (if so, when might that be?)
  14. Can you think of some circumstances when running away would be the wrong thing to do?
  15. Can someone else decide for you that you should run away, or is it only something you can decide for yourself? Why? Why not?

Exercise: Good Reasons for Leaving – UPS, MS

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Exercise: Good Reasons for Leaving

Do you think the following are good reasons for leaving? Explain why or why not.

  1. You leave the room because your brother refuses to give you the video game.
  2. You stop being someone’s friend because you discover she/he stole something from you.
  3. You run away because your brother is constantly making you feel bad about yourself.
  4. You run away because your sister hits you when you do something to annoy her.
  5. You change schools because your teacher tells you that you aren’t bright.
  6. You leave your friend’s sleep-over because some of the kids are drinking alcohol.
  7. You leave home because your mother hits you when you do something that upsets her.
  8. You stop taking swimming classes because the swim instructor insists that you wear a bathing cap.
  9. You leave the softball team because you think your coach treats girls and boys on the team differently.
  10. You leave camp because you are lonely.
  11. You leave camp because you are bored.

Exercise: Good Reasons for Leaving – HS, A

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Exercise: Good Reasons for Leaving

Do you think the following are good reasons for leaving? Explain why or why not.

  1. You leave the room because your brother refuses to give you the video game.
  2. You stop being someone’s friend because you discover she/he stole something from you.
  3. You leave home because people in the house are constantly making you feel bad about yourself.
  4. You leave home because your parent/spouse hit you when you do something to annoy them.
  5. You change schools/jobs because your teacher/employee tells you that you aren’t bright enough to advance to a better level/position.
  6. You leave the party because kids are drinking alcohol and getting drunk.
  7. You leave the local softball team because you think the coach is racist.
  8. You leave the city where your parent’s live to go to college/take a job in another State..
  9. You leave camp/work early because you are bored.

Intertextual Sources: Deciding when to leave – Reasons not to leave – UPS

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Intertextual Source:  Deciding when to leave – Reasons not to leave

Look up these further references in the Tanach: What do they tell us about reasons people have for leaving and reasons they have for staying?

  1. Bereshit 30:25 – 31:18 – Ya’akov decides to leave Laban.
  2. Ruth1:12-19 – Story of Ruth. Orpha decides to leave Naomi, but Ruth decides to stay with her.